Since my girlfriend left me back in July 2008, I thought that any chance of getting her back was pretty much out of the question…

However, that didn't stop me trying.

Oh boy, did I try…

Just like you are now, I was desperate to regain my ex's love, and the thought of her fooling around with all those attractive guys that she suddenly met on Facebook (despite saying she "wanted some time to herself") really made me feel worthless and extremely jealous.

No one knew Katy like I did.

And I knew deep down that she still had strong feelings for me.

However, in the next few minutes I want to warn you that I nearly blew my chances on more than one occasion, and how anybody including you could do the same without realizing.

Here's why…

First of all, you'll get:

The big "Brain freeze"…

I had no idea what to say to win her over, to get a second chance. Everytime I came up with something, I ran it through the logical side of my brain and threw it straight to the trash.

Everything sounded cheesy or desperate, and whenever I called her or made some lame excuse to see her, she completely brushed everything I said right off her shoulder.

All this time I spent chasing my ex around like a loser, feeling robbed…but I just couldn't stop thinking about what could have been with us, know what I mean?

I felt lonely and lost, probably as you do right now.

I couldn't turn the radio on, because there were so many songs that reminded me of her.

I couldn't eat…because I felt sick.

And here's one thing that nearly ruined it all…

I KEPT calling her all the time. Ouch.

Hey listen, whatever you do please take my advice- calling your ex several times a day will only ruin whatever chance you once had of saving your relationship. It's not easy, but try to avoid this at all costs, ok?

And that goes for text messaging/emails too. In fact, these are even worse because they don't carry the same context of what you're trying to say (and they can easily think you're being sarcastic or rude when you're not).

So, this led to 4 months of pain, all the time I was making these...

big mistakes that nearly ruined my chances of getting my ex back (and could ruin your chances too)

I'd spend all day within arm's reach of the phone. Waiting for her to call…

…and I'd rarely leave the house "just in case" she did call. Guess what - she never called.

So I spent this time torturing myself - constantly thinking where I went wrong, why she doesn't like me anymore and all sorts of other things that wouldn't leave my thoughts day or night.

I know what you're going through - it's depressing to say the least isn't it?

Worse still, have you...

Ever Acted crazy like this?

This period of desperation and the fact that she didn't call led me to go a bit crazy at times…

Such as wanting to hang out near her apartment to see who she was with, what she was doing etc.

This is when you know that something has gotta change - it's just no good carrying on like this and it's certainly not going to fix things.

You Might as well give up because...

In fact, this sort of behaviour will completely toast your ex's respect for you and you might as well give up if they see you acting like this.

All of these mistakes in trying to win them back (like saying dumb and desperate sounding things) seems like a natural reaction, but it's not the right way to go about getting him or her back, which thankfully I know now.

So, if you've tried to:

• Convince them you are the love of their life
• Apologize profusely for everything
• Promise to change for good this time
• Try to get them to see that it wasn't really your fault
• Even beg with them to take you back

…then don't worry - we've ALL been there. It's normal.

However, I was one of the lucky ones that managed to change my ways enough for my ex to come back to me with wide open, loving arms.

But getting my ex back wasn't really luck, there was a method involved which I'd like to share with you right now…

But before I do, consider your options to getting your ex back. To save you time and money, here's a heads up of things I tried which didn't work for me:

1. Counselling/Therapy

Sounds a little overboard especially if you're not married, but counselling and therapy is used all the time for both married couples and unmarried couples alike.

The thing about it is, as I found out the hard way, is twofold.

Firstly, it costs a damn fortune. Particularly if you want to see any lasting results.

I'm not bashing the profession, because these people need to get paid of course, but sheesh - there's gotta be a better way…that's what I thought when I was shelling out $350 per hour, with not guaranteed results promised for that.

The second thing is, more importantly…it's extremely hard to drag someone along for counselling when they quite clearly don't want to be with you.

It was near impossible to get Katy to one expensive session, and literally impossible to get her to come back again.

So, what else is there?

Well, there's:

2. Advice/conventional wisdom from friends & family

Yep, been there too. I got tons of advice from friends and family (most of which told me that I'll "find someone better" and that "time will heal all wounds").

Yeah you know what? I don't WANT time to heal my wounds…I just wanted Katy back.

I don't WANT to meet someone better, I WANT Katy!

I know they were just trying to help, but the thing is - hardly anyone I knew had been through a breakup and managed to get back together (and STAY together).

Therefore, the advice I got was very generic and nothing I hadn't already tried - like giving her space and trying to make her jealous, or "see what she's missing".

It seemed like I was invisible to her, and I was literally stuck, scared of losing her for good to some other muscle bound, well tanned "Don".

So I hit the internet, just as you did…to find some answers. And that sucked too because:

Again, lots more "wish washy" advice from people who have some very scary ideas about how to deal with relationship problems.

Common sense will tell you that some of these people are nuts - and I doubt much of the advice splashed around on forums and social networks has actually been used by the people saying it (at least not with positive and lasting results!).

So with such a slew of possible options, but no clear cut path or system of saving my lost love, I dug deeper until I came across a recommendation from a few people on a relationship forum (yes, I know it's sad...but I needed help!).

They told me to check out a guide called Magic of Making Up.

I told one of them that it looked like a scam, or just another cheesy book selling rehashed info like all the rest.

One particular guy strongly insisted otherwise, to the point I actually looked into it a little more deeply.

If you haven't already heard about Magic of Making Up, here's what it's all about…

Basically, it's a digital guide (you can download it, so it doesn't get delivered to your door, which is probably a bonus if you don't live alone like me).

It was created/written by this "ex military brat" as he calls himself (no idea if it's true) who has basically travelled the world, and as a result learned how to get on with anybody…and how to read people like a book.

Sounds a bit far fetched I know, but he's got lots of videos and seems like a "real person" if they still exist online! Lol.

Anyway, he claims that he knows how to read people so well in fact, to the point he can influence their behaviour and actions.

Therefore, he claims that because of this, he became the "go to" guy for all relationships problems…and he got some practice - considering the military divorce rate is a lot higher than average couples.

This of course, led to the creation of his Magic of Making Up online guide - which is basically a simple set of stand alone or all in one recipes for saving ANY relationship.

It actually uses somewhat unconventional methods that cost far less than a counsellor or therapist...which was part of the appeal for me.

Look, I don't know whether that story is true about his army days or whatever, but let me tell you something:

I got this guide and it's mindblowingly effective!

So effective in fact, that me and Katy are actually back together. Sure, we're still taking things slowly, and she hasn't moved back in yet, but she's now "officially" dating me, and it feels like the day we first met…

• We go out on cool dates to places we've never been before

• We have those subtle moments of romance that you simply cannot recreate twice

• We're laughing all the time we're together

• She holds me when it get's cold at the end of the night, and it feels like a blanket of comfort!

• I can finally sleep at night without worrying what she's doing, or what I did wrong

Things are going so well in fact, I think I'm going to ask her to move in next month…we've been back together for about 3 months since I took action.

And speaking of taking action, you really shouldn't carry on in misery like you are right now because here's the thing:

Did you know that it's actually VERY possible to win back your ex DESPITE how badly you broke up and whether they've met someone else or not?

It's true, and it's happening for all sorts of couples around the world with this crazy little guide to thank for it (check out the official website to see their stories...some of them make for some crazy reading)

Yes, there are a few different guides now around that promise to do the same thing, but this was the first one I was recommended, and I'm led to believe it's the "original" get your ex back guide on the internet.

However, it's not perfect because:

There's a couple of things I didn't like about this guide so here's a fair warning:

First of all, some of the techniques feel a bit weird to do, almost like you're playing with puppet strings.

But because there's so many, I left out the things I got weirded out by and just stuck to the things I knew would work for our situation.

Secondly, you gotta put some work in. If you're lazy and you want to massage your ego, this guide will suck for you, and I doubt that anything will be that effective for getting your ex back.

But apart from those minor flaws (and the fact I'd prefer a video version to written text) this is really worth a shot, especially when you compare it to the cost of counselling, or worse still…not doing anything at all and letting your lost love slip away to someone else for good.

One thing I should mention in that respect is, unlike getting "professional" advice from a more traditional source...

...These full set of techniques come with a full 60 day guarantee:

…so if the guide doesn't get your partner back in your arms in under 60 days, you don't pay a penny.

Now you gotta admit, that's a pretty fair trade off right?

I'm not here to tell you what to do, just what I can clearly see that is working for me (and many others). In fact, stop listening to me babble on and check it out for yourself.

You owe it to yourself (and your partner) to at least go check out what this guy has to offer, and why it's so effective.

After all, it might just give you a future that is otherwise lost!

Here's just some of the elements behind it that can help you win your ex back that I love about this cool little guide:

• How to get your head on straight. Use the "Fast Forward Technique" and get instant relief from emotional break-up pain and depression...You CAN feel better and within minutes! (Page 13)

• Do they still care? Discover the TELL TALE clues your ex leaves that says you still have a special place in their heart…and I don't care what they say... This is all you need to look for PERIOD! (Page 21)

• Man had an affair? How to fight fire with fire. Inside this magic bag you will discover dirty tricks women use to steal a man. How to neutralize the power she has over him by understanding the ONE THING he craves more than sex, food or ball games. (Page 5)

• Do you know the core reason why men leave women? ...it is not beauty, sex, or a younger fresher face… I am SHOCKED most women can't answer this question. Men desire this ONE thing more than any other…give it to them and they will be yours FOREVER. (Page 5)

• What women crave the most... and if she doesn't get it…it is only a matter of time before SHE WILL look for it somewhere else. You can get her back fast once you master this simple technique. (This is the #1 technique used by unscrupulous Don Juan's use to steal married women.) (Page 6)

• Are they with someone else now? Why this is not nearly as catastrophic as it first appears…and how to use the fact that 90% of rebound relationships never work out to your advantage. (Page 18)

• Were you the one that had the affair? How to use the "clean slate" technique in conjunction with one other secret technique and come a looong way to forgiveness in the shortest amount of time. (Special Bonus Included)

• When to apologize and when you shouldn't. In the right circumstance just one good apology will land you back in their arms…other times an apology will blow up in your face and hurt your future chances. (Special Bonus Included)

• The fastest and shortest path (bar none) back into their heart, mind and soul. This is so counter-intuitive it may never occur to you. (Page 33)

• Wish you could start over? Take away hurtful things you said? Turn back time? Using a combination of the Clean Slate Method and "breaking the pattern" you can. Quickly and easily.

• The Instant Reconnect Technique - The "psychological judo" technique that will trick your ex lovers mind into thinking you are still together. This is SUBCONSCIOUS and there is no defence against it. (Page 43)

• Exactly what to say and what to do to get your ex back on a date. Follow these instructions and it will be easy as pie because it will seem so natural. This has worked hundreds if not thousands of times. (Page 38)

• The Bonding Secret so powerful that is partially responsible for the reason hostages sometimes bond with their kidnappers or oppressors (Stockholm Syndrome). This is relationship magic. It is undetectable, unnoticeable and 99.99% of the human population can not defend against it, let alone tell you how it is done. Like ANYTHING, this can be used for good or bad. Once you own The Magic Of Making Up you will possess the power to REBOND or BOND with anyone. Please use responsibly!

• Sex? When you should have sex during the reconciliation process. Both men and women get this completely wrong. Guys you will speed up the process immensely armed with this information. Ladies, most of you nearly destroy your chances because you sleep with him too soon. (Page 46-48)

• What foods toy with your emotions and what foods help put you in balance. Putting your relationship back together is hard enough, make sure you are eating foods that will help you. (Page 26-28)

• Decisions you should actually put off until you are back together. (Page 60)

• How to use the "Fast Forward Technique" to overcome hang ups you may have with dieting, exercise, self esteem and other challenges that stem from negative feelings. (Page 14)

• Recapture the romance you had when love your love was new. Impossible? Not once you learn the magic of Pattern Breaking and you stir in a dose of the techniques in Chapter 4.

• Ladies if you follow the advice in Chapter 6, he will NOT be able to get you out of his mind - (It's just the way men are wired.)- He will start CALLING YOU again and you will be shocked at the complete transformation he makes!

• Afraid you will just start fighting again once your back together? How to diffuse arguments before they start. This is so simple and works so well you will swear it's "magic"...and it only takes one person!

Why not any other method? Why do I suggest you try this Magic of Making Up?

During my quest for information online, and even after my friend recommended this Magic of Making Up guide to me, I still wanted to see what else was out there.

Let me save you about $300 and a few weeks of precious time that would be otherwise wasted…

…almost every similar guide was very weak in comparison. The information is stuff that I knew already and anything that I hadn't already tried was not worth trying, such as the classic…

"Don't call her for "x" amount of days, and then spend that time exercising, dating new people and buying new clothes".

I can see how a lot of guys and gals would find that advice useful at first, but let me tell you…it's a waste of time.

These things don't make the slightest bit of difference and of all the guides I tried - NONE of them focused on the core triggers behind break ups and gettting back together.

Now I've "seen the light", there's one thing I still can't believe about these other guides, which is...

No other guide seemed to focus on the one single thing that matters the most to win your ex back, which is...

…PSYCHOLOGY.

That's what the Magic of Making Up guide does so well, he writes like he's inside your ex's head, telling you which buttons to press in an ethical way (which is more than can be said for other similar shady guides).

And because you're working with the laws of human nature, if he/she once loved you and you follow the advice he gives, they WILL come back to you…

…the only way this would backfire is if you rushed it, or completely ignored the advice and did it your own way again.

So if you want my opinion (and yes, that's all this is) then I'd seriously give this a shot today.

And if you're smart, you'll know that the longer you leave the seperation to fester, the more the emotion will fade until you're nothing more than a long forgotten ex partner, just like the rest...

...you're not going to be that person are you? Don't let it happen!

Don't put this on a back burner, just do something about this asap....whether you try the Magic of Making Up or something completely different, please...

...Just take action NOW, before it's too late!